X-Mess Night with Death Guild at DNA lounge.  December 25th, 2022.  ALL AGES (so if you have a baby-bat, this is their chance!).
Winter Fetish Ball at Cat Club on December 30th, 2022 at 9PM-2AM.
The SF Gothic NYE Ball at Amado's (SF). December 31st, 2022, doors 8:30PM, 9PM show -2AM. 
Edwardian Ball at the Regency Ballroom.  February 3rd and 4th, 2023

Nigh impossible to describe, but absolutely delightful to experience. The Edwardian Ball is an elegant and whimsical celebration of art, music, theatre, fashion, technology, circus, and the beloved creations of the late, great author and illustrator Edward Gorey.

Set in a re-imagined “Edwardian Era,” this multi-city, multi-media extravaganza has grown over the past TWENTY TWO years from an underground club party into an internationally recognized festival of the arts, now operating with the blessing of The Edward Gorey Charitable Trust.

Bats Day at Disneyland May 7th, 2023. (yes not in Bay Area, but many Bay Area goths go). A day when Disneyland becomes a sea of black.  Special line at Haunted Mansion, and photo shoot in front of the castle.  Wear your club time best (though not anything that shows belly or too revealing like a bra with fish nets, because Disneyland has dress rules).  Make park reservations as far in advance as you can.If you check the Bats Day website there is associated merch.

Last updated 12/4/2022